Finding Help
Here you can find help if you:
• Are considering an abortion
• Know someone who is considering an abortion
• Have had an abortion
Are you pregnant and considering an abortion?
Do not abort your unborn child! There is a better way.
You may be visiting our website because you are overwhelmed by an unwanted pregnancy. Perhaps you do not have support from the baby’s father or the rest of your family. You may also have financial pressures, school or work concerns or other problems that lead you to believe that abortion is your only choice. This is a lie! There are always better solutions to a difficult pregnancy. Please read on.
Beware of the lies
The abortionist will not tell you the whole truth about the abortion. The abortion clinic staff will say, “It is only a blob of tissue. It is nothing.” That is the message of most abortion doctors. The clinic wants you “not to worry” or think deeply about what you are doing because then they will lose their money. Of course they want to hurry you through the process before you realise, “What have I done?!!!” and then it’s too late. 
Think about it, one of the popular phrases of abortion supporters is: "No-one makes the decision to abort lightly!" Ask yourself why this is. If your unborn child is really just a blob of tissue they wouldn't say this. No woman makes this decision lightly because she is carrying a baby.
Do not allow them to trick you or deceive you. Do not give into pressure from them or other people in your life. Do not make a decision based on problems that feel overwhelming now but which will pass in time.
Life is too short to learn from your own mistakes
Many people will tell you that this pregnancy will ruin your life but countless women who have aborted will tell you that their abortion was far more ruinous than their pregnancy could ever have been. Read these testimonies from women who have been through abortion HERE. You are the one who must live with your decision forever.
Face the truth
We urge you to look beyond your own concerns and consider the smallest person involved in your choice. Ask yourself: What is pregnancy? You know in your heart that a pregnancy means you are carrying a child in your womb, or perhaps even twins! Then you must ask: What is abortion and what does abortion do to my child? Our website clearly shows you the reality of abortion. PHOTO GALLERY These abortion pictures show that an abortion is an act of violence that kills an unborn child.
Your baby wants to live! Look at this footage of babies in the womb. This is what your child looks like at various stages during your pregnancy. http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/in_pictures/3847319.stm All of his body systems are present by eight weeks. A three month old unborn child responds to light touch, so imagine how excruciating your baby’s pain will be if you choose to abort your child. Here is a great video to see how much an 11 week baby can get up to:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dNOzLYG3ep8
I hope you will have the courage and integrity to see the above web images as well as the following link where you will hear a verbal 1st trimester abortion description from a priest friend of ours: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QBOAPleF1t0. This will give you more truthful knowledge of what an abortion entails. Then you will not go to the abortion facility blindly and submit yourself and your baby to the indignities and indecencies of that hideous place.
This is YOUR baby
No matter who the father is of this baby and regardless of the circumstances of your pregnancy, this is still your child, genetically linked to you and a forever part of your family history. It is now your choice to give your baby life or to violently end your baby’s life through an abortion.
How abortion will affect YOU
Around the world, countless women who have aborted their children wish they could turn the clocks back and change that decision to abort. Here are some of the painful realities you will likely face after an abortion:
- You may become infertile as a result of damage done by the abortion. Some women experience infection and scarring in the reproductive system that renders them unable to ever again conceive or carry a pregnancy to term.
- You will feel stabs of pain when you see pregnant women and babies. They will remind you of the child you aborted.
- You will have a difficult time bonding in a healthy way with future children, if you are so blessed to have them. The abortion will always be in your mind and you will wonder if those children will learn that you aborted their sibling.
- Your relationship with your boyfriend or husband will likely end. One study showed 90% of relationships end after an abortion.
- You will face nightmares about your abortion and you will likely engage in self-destructive behaviours such as excess drinking, drug abuse, eating disorders, promiscuity and even suicidal acts in an effort to cover up your pain.
This is only a sampling of the grief that occurs after every abortion. Teens and young women often go into denial after their abortions and effectively mask the pain for years. But it will come out someday.
The help is out there
There are people who will help you through this challenging time in your life. Ask your family and friends to help you. Hopefully some will respond with practical help. There are others whom you have not yet met who will help you. Visit this link to locate a pregnancy help clinic or centre near you that will provide you with free and confidential assistance: http://www.careconfidential.com/ or http://www.heartbeatinternational.org/worldwide_directory.asp
Take the time to read these very personal stories from women who could have aborted but who instead made the right and good decision to give birth to their babies: Changed minds
For personal online help, e-mail
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and write “HELP” in the subject line.
If you can gather the courage and strength to carry your baby to term, but don’t believe that you are at a point in your life where you can parent him, there are thousands of loving families waiting to adopt children. You can contact us and find out more about this life affirming and positive choice.
We were all once in our mother's wombs. No one had the right to kill us. At conception a new and unique individual is created. That is a medical and scientific fact.
So we plead with every pregnant woman: please do not kill your unborn child! To every man who made a woman pregnant: please don't force her into an abortion!
Every abortion leads to pain, sorrow and/or regret in varying degrees. But no one regrets a child. So please choose life for your baby.
One organisation is British Victims of Abortion (BVA). They are not associated with us or the kind of work we do but are happy to help anyone considering abortion.
www.bvafoundation.org
or call them on:
If someone you know is considering abortion 
It is very easy just to tell people you love what you think they want to hear. But you may be the only person who can help save this baby and her mother.
Encourage her and anyone influential in her life to visit this website and the links mentioned in the section called "Are you pregnant and considering abortion?"
It will take some courage and may be very difficult. But it will be more difficult if your friend chooses abortion as she will regret it for the rest of her life. She will thank you in years to come that you helped her.
If you are a boyfriend or husband of someone who is pregnant, she is carrying your child. Please don't just say "I will support you whatever decision you make" She needs you to be a man and say: "We can do this! I will help you." She is probably feeling very scared and alone. So many "men" have run from their responsibility; please don't be one of them.
If you have had an abortion
You may have felt a sense of relief when you first came out of the clinic or hospital. When the reality of what you have done has set in, the pain and guilt can seem overwhelming and the possibility of getting through it hopeless.
The abortion industry makes a lot of money from what they do and they are quick to offer their services around the world. Killing babies is very profitable. On the other side there are many groups who are driven purely out of concern for the welfare of the women who were lied to about what they were choosing. They are often staffed by volunteers and run on donations.
If you would like to talk to someone who can help there are various groups around one of which is:
British Victims of Abortion can help you work through this:
www.bvafoundation.org
or call them on: